Urashaka impano nziza cyane ku mukobwa muto w’umwamikazi mu buzima bwawe? Ntukarebe kure y’imyenda y’abana bacu yo kwambara n’ibikinisho by’imitako! Ibi bikinisho bihuza ni byiza ku bakobwa bakunda kwambara no gushakisha uruhande rwabo rwo kwihangira. Hamwe n’imikino yo kwambara no kwambara igezweho hamwe n’imikinire y’abagore, umwana wawe azamara amasaha menshi yidagadura.
Seti yacu irimo ibintu byose umukobwa muto yarota kugira ngo arangize itsinda rye ry’abaganwakazi. Kuva ku makamba kugeza ku mikufi, impeta, amaherena, inkweto, amajipo, ndetse n'inkoni y'ubumaji, ibi bikinisho bizamura umukino wawe wo kwambara neza ku rwego rushya. Yaba ashaka kuba umufano ugaragara, umufano w'umwamikazi, cyangwa umwamikazi mwiza, izi seti zifite byose akeneye kugira ngo agaragaze ubuhanga bwe.
Ntabwo ari byiza gusa mu gushishikariza abantu gukina ibintu bishya, ahubwo ni impano nziza ku munsi mukuru uwo ari wo wose. Yaba ari isabukuru y'amavuko, iminsi mikuru, cyangwa se kubera ko gusa, umukobwa muto mu buzima bwawe azishima cyane aramutse akiriye ibi bikoresho byo kwambara imyenda n'imitako.
Igice cyiza kurusha ibindi? Ibi bikinisho si ibyo gukina imyenda ijyanye n'ubuzima bw'imyambarire mu rugo gusa. Nanone ni byiza mu kongera ubumenyi mu mibanire n'abandi no guhanga udushya binyuze mu gukina udushya n'inshuti n'umuryango. Reba uko umwana wawe ahinduka ubuzima bw'ibirori hamwe n'imyambarire ye ishimishije n'imitako.
Rero, niba ushaka impano ikwiriye umukobwa udasanzwe mu buzima bwawe, ntukarebe kure uretse imyenda n'ibikinisho by'abana bacu byo kwambara imyenda n'imitako. Bitewe n'ubushobozi bwinshi bwo gukina mu buryo bw'ubuhanga n'imiterere yabyo yo mu rwego rwo hejuru, nta gushidikanya ko bizazanira umukobwa muto wese inseko n'ibyishimo.
Igihe cyo kohereza: Ukuboza-25-2023
